Protecting a friend is a value to die for.
Covering up for his poor choice in quotes, also par for the course.
But a presumptive defence to check for seeming offence, before finding out first the effect, if any, on the friend, flowing from his actions! Why jump to his defence in a seemingly nervous reflex before you're fully aware. Now thatsa bit much, even for friendship.
You're not responsible for our responses. Nor are you responsible for our personas. Accept us for who we are, not judged against conformance to some template forged by yout circle of friends.
If you choose for us to share some space with your friends, then I'd advise you to be more objective and shed your presumptive frame. It projects YOUR apprehensions as OUR most likely responses.
A constant of the growing up process - We all wanna be and curse the fact that ones folks just dont see. Fact is, one's so busy being, independent, that actions from history are presumed as seeing.
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