Is family a constraint in life

Arun - Is family a constraint in life? If so, why did this concept come in at all?
Me - Society has always regulated itself. Norms, traditions, structure. Why? Because there was security in community. Belief systems further bound and, morality was monogamist. The maximum degrees of freedom on basic instincts were accorded to the family unit. So it became a self perpetuating license to be. Yet salvation requires cutting those ties.
Revisit the understanding of discharge of responsibility. Have you not provided an experience frame that gives you confidence that wife and son can manage if you make them financially secure. Blood ties that bind will have to be shed in a later stage of evolution in any case. Why not make a start now. Explore your interests, discover yourself. Just takes management.
Your working hours, guided by the financials, are the basic binding constraint on your mindset. You can reschedule to the extent it doesn't compromise your Barog time-table.....still on?
The problem is basically in the run up period with this work schedule. Sorry bro. Apart from grin n bear it, I have no ideas. Make the Barog trips fortnightly. Only a bit more strain.
Arun - Yea.

Me - Let the thought emerge. It's easier to follow as it leads on. Thoughts forced on you by circumstance and life tend to be conditioned to a wish frame thats near paralysed.

'Tis things sensory that drive one as also trigger withdrawal. 'Tis things sensory that get one exploring. 'Tis things sensory that get cocoons built. Just sense and sensitivity.