Abstinence

A crude and stupid question I know, but the answer would plug a knowledge gap. So here goes:
In the mating game, the male is wired up with a near involuntary reflex that signals that the mate is on the radar, so go for it. Do the female of the species have something similar, as a sign of attraction. One reads about wetness but??? Sentiment, morality and values and, better control oft mask the fallout of basic instincts and serve to perpetuate my ignorance. Any chance of getting an education from you on this issue!

I guess you couldn't lay her lol. Well there's more to women than primal instincts.... Do the words like love, commitment, companionship ring a bell??

How perceptive!! And I thought the phraseology Of my message accounted for those facets in seeking knowledge if the physiological equivalent of priapism existed in women!

Well buddy! Wake up to reality.

Thats what I'm trying to do through garnering some objective, first hand knowledge.... Well trying to induce sharing of the same at least!

Morningside.....
A bit of me died
And filled a void that want begat.
And though I'm free
A tad sorrier and wiser.
For the life of me I can't understand,
How abstinence seems to come so easy!

Look at it as a new beginning, better late than never.
Never too late to be sensitised and be sensitive.....How about that???

And just how would all that sensitivity make my world a better place? We are not talking about the ability to forge new relationships. No interest there. Its about the evolution of the existing ones. They all seem to acquire a plateau or mesa like quality. Flatten out too soon. The lessons from life are learnt differently in the building of our comfort zones. Most peak n plateau easily, anchored in their world views. Facades erected as a surcival framework. Some still roam and climb on their own terms. Indulging impulse!