Arun - What is More Painful ??
When a person whom you trusted hurts you,
OR
The person whom you hurt still trusts you!
Think about it!
Me - What is pain ? The undigested effluvium of ones expectations by ones intellect. The more senses one invests in a subject or object, the larger the potential for emotional bullshit.
If you trust somebody, you invest a host of senses totally. Hence in breach, its a swing to the other end of the pendulum.
I wouldn't hurt someone I cared for, consciously. So bearing with the pain of forgiveness is much easier seeing that one can always make it up.
In the former case its difficult to make up to yourself....Then again, it teaches you not to expect.
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Me - Trust is basically taking many givens for granted. Situation and environment independent. Thyself gives as to myself. Even in a crunch, placing thy expectations before mine as thye given! The Trust deficit arises when I comes before you. The pain comes when others do unto you what you wouldn't do unto them. A lapse in your judgement.
When others continue to do unto you despite what you did to them, the residual that you live with is more shame that brings on a faux pain when it keeps reminding you of your pettiness. And you will always sheepishly overcompensate.
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