Responsibility is usually manifested as a wish frame of things one thinks best for the other. What gets lost sight of is that its the other who has to act. And he or she may have an agenda of their own.
Its so easy to live somebody elses life, especially when you feel responsible for them. Our concern inevitably sees us in the drivers seat of someone elses life.
We get affected by dissonance in the things we care about.
Caring creates attachment, which is primarily sustained by memories. Memories are all in the mind and intangible. If they are intangible, they are not real in the here and now. How then can something that is not real affect you.
The effects arise out of one's non-acceptance that reality is just this....This here and now. The past is but a memory. The future is nothing but plans and wishes. "What if" scenario building is but a Mind activity....intangible.
So Why care!!
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