What is...was meant to be

Me - To Be, one needs to understand the basis of the choices that created What Is. Despite which there seems to exist an alternate reality as What Should be.
My state of being depends on knowing how and What I Am and Why I Am that. Is my life dependent or independent of the me that created it. If I am to Be, is it because of or inspite of my choices that stare at me as What Is. If What Should be keeps getting placed out of reach by the binding constraints around choice, then What Is, is but a Hobsons choice of What Should be. And there never will be an alternate reality so long as one presumes binding constraints regulate choice.
To Be, you first need to feel free to choose!
Arun - If you had free will, you would never say, What Is...was meant to be.
Me - It is because I didn't have it then that I now know that What Is...was meant to be. And What will be, will be in exercise of my free will, as it is meant to be.